Yep, I Do the Cooking, the Washing, the Childcare and I am a Man.

February 28, 2014
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Becoming an AP Mom

February 25, 2014
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I imagine that my journey to Attachment Parenting was typical to some degree. I believe we all learn, grow and evolve as individuals and parents when a child enters our lives. For me, it’s hard to remember life before my son and even more difficult to remember ideas that I had about parenting. I do know that […]

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There’s a Pause Button, Just in Case

February 18, 2014
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“It’s green. Really green,” said my midwife just after my water broke. The amniotic fluid was meconium-stained, and my mind went to the worst. “So he’ll end up with some in his lungs?” I asked.  She threw out a percentage of babies who aspirate meconium, and I don’t recall the exact figure, but it was […]

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Feature Friday: Why You Should Always Apologize to Your Kids

February 14, 2014
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The Llama Book and Why I Still Sing My Daughter to Sleep

February 10, 2014
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Ever since my daughter was born my favorite part of the day was bedtime (and not because it provided me with much needed rest.) I loved to rock my sweet baby and listen to her breath start to steady and slow as she drifted off to sleep. The fingers she had so tightly wrapped around […]

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The Hard Heart of Parenting

February 3, 2014
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My body tenses. Teeth clench. Heart hardens. I don’t hurt him. I don’t yell. Yet, my heart hardens with frustration. My agenda to clothe my two-year-old collides with his interest in remaining naked. He wants to play with his trucks on the bedroom floor; I have a morning adventure planned. After several attempts to wrestle […]

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Frozen

January 31, 2014
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I am frozen. Frozen in the moments that are precious and true. I recently went back to work. It has been a hard adjustment.  I started in early November. I had to hit the ground running and it has been a blur since I started. I eventually got used to my new schedule and feelings […]

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Why?

December 17, 2013
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“Why mama?” Two huge brown eyes looked up at me, searching for answers. I stopped stirring and put down the spoon. “Because it is hot, and I don’t want you to get hurt.” Acceptance. There was no drama, no bargaining or rewards. Only contentment, pure and simple. For me, “Why?” is one of the most […]

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