DD and I co-sleep, breast feed, practice elimination communication, holding time, and attachment parenting. However, when my husband visited our family therapist with DD in tote, our family therapist noted: "Wow. Lauren is MUCH MORE demanding when she is with her Mother."
Does anyone know why this would be? She wakes 3x nightly to potty and at least as many times to nurse. We nurse on demand and I do my best to respond to her every need. It is exhausting. In fact, we attended a Mothering Retreat with many other mothers and their children. They mothers pulled me aside and asked, "How do you do this? I couldn't do what you are doing. Lauren is sooo intense." What is puzzling is that she is not this way with her father.
I welcome any theories and recommendations!!!! Thank you for your thoughts!
Does anyone know why this would be? She wakes 3x nightly to potty and at least as many times to nurse. We nurse on demand and I do my best to respond to her every need. It is exhausting. In fact, we attended a Mothering Retreat with many other mothers and their children. They mothers pulled me aside and asked, "How do you do this? I couldn't do what you are doing. Lauren is sooo intense." What is puzzling is that she is not this way with her father.
I welcome any theories and recommendations!!!! Thank you for your thoughts!

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