A week ago I started doing research on hyperemisis in pregnancy and found a wonderful site where mom's have survived multiple pregnancy's with this dibilitating disorder and their babies we're healthy. All the research I've done says their is no side-effects to the baby in regards to the hyperemisis. The only side-effects that are dangerous are Dehydration and Malnurishment however I've talked with some midwives in the area and they are able to treat me at home with this unfortunate issue.
I kinda of hinted to my parents that i was thinking about becoming pregnant again and they told me that they were 100% against it. That I was being selfish and I would be hospitalized and it would be detrimental to my DD as she is securly attatched to me. I could possibly kill my next lo or myself and I should count myself lucky i have my dd and move on with my life. My dh is for it as well as my MIL. My GP is against it but by OB told me "I'll see you again in 2 yrs". I'm soo confused. I have gone from one extream to another and I'm torn on what to do. I don't want to hurt my dd by being seperated from her too much, but I don't want her to feel alone because she's an only child (something some my friends who are only children complain about and still to this day tell me i have to have another child, i can't make me dd feel like they do). I'm looking for advice or support on what to do! My parents are so important to me (I'm very attatched to them and they play a huge role in my life). I don't want them to be disappointed or angry at me but i really want another baby