'no she hit me' 'tell her off mum!' Did tell off 21month old but now getting silly and so we have started saying to 3yr old oh just ignore her it didnt hurt. Sometimes I tell 3yr old to tell 21yr old that she wont play with her if she hits. Is this right?
I do say each time 'we only touch gently' and then i show her how ro touch but doesnt seem to be working. Sometimes i put her in a different room or on a chair, sometimes i lose patience. Its equally difficult with sharing. Lots of tantrums and crying all the time.With sharing the same toy weput on the timer. This works quite well. Have crying and tantrums all day but gets particularly bad round eating times; Husband against AP so is starting to blame me. Maybe doing lotss of things wrong need advice. They were both high need babies especially the 3yr old. We are always trying to catch them in the act of being good with one another and we praise good behaviour. Will the bad behaviour just go awaY?
Also what do we do about crying to get things? They both cry straight away to get what they want.