I have a Moby Wrap, which I love, and a ringsling, which I hate. More the material than anything but here lies the problem:

DS loves to be put to sleep dancing to music - we hold him in a nursing position - tummy to tummy in a cradle hold. He is getting very heavy now when he wakes at 2 am and we have to put him back to sleep. Sometimes it takes an hour or more.....
When he was young I used a hotslings pouch but he's outgrown it and I never loved it anyway.

During the day I will use Moby in a front cross carry or fwcc usually but he will only sleep upright for short periods and it's hard to get him out of that hold without waking him

So - which carrier did you find helpful for wearing down and using what holds?

Thanks for any input!