Which brings up my cosleeping problem - assuming I can eventually get her to sleep for a little while without nursing at the same time - how is it safe to leave her alone in our bed? We have bed rails, but they don't go all the way round, and besides she can easily climb over them. Even with the baby monitor, she can be up and climbing towards the edge very quickly, too quickly for me to be in another room.
Also, since she is used to going to sleep either in bed nursing with me or occasionally in a sling walking around, its next to impossible to transfer her to a crib where she could sleep on her own safely for a nap.
Anyway, I'm just wondering what other cosleeping parents do about naps? Or in the evenings, when baby is asleep, and you're not ready to go to bed yet?