preparing for parenting

Understanding Shame, part 5: Healing emotional trauma

March 3, 2017

Editor’s note: This week, we offer you a 5-part series — originating in The Attached Family online magazine’s “Parenting Without Shame” issue — to help you better understand the development of toxic shame. Part 1 explained how trauma includes 3 components: Fear, Disconnection, and Shame. Part 2 explored Fear. Part 3 defined Disconnection. Part 4 […]

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All babies are born with these 3 emotional needs

February 8, 2017
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Informed decision-making is critical to attachment parenting

November 21, 2016
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Expecting your first baby? Talk about parenting now, before baby arrives

June 26, 2015

Henry and Isabel had been married for 3 years when they found out they were expecting their first child. They had dated for 4 years in college before getting married, and they were sure that they knew everything about each other. They were very excited about becoming parents and did everything the parenting magazines suggested: […]

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Editor’s Pick: AP Month on “How to get from there to here”

October 22, 2014

“We nod our heads recognizing scientific ‘child outcomes’ as…parenting goals regardless of our style of parenting. But how do we get from there to here? What’s the parenting analogue that allows us parents to be all that, enough of the time, so that these child benefits are possible?” ~ “How to get from there to […]

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