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Entries from November 2008

Nighttime parenting

November 30th, 2008 · 5 Comments

My daughter is almost two years old. I still nurse her to sleep in the sling.Once in the afternoon for a nap and once in the evening.This process takes at least 30 minutes if I’m very lucky,if not more than that. When she falls into deep sleep,I transfer her to the bed.
If you had told [...]

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Tags: Engage in Nighttime Parenting · Feed with Love and Respect · General Interest · Provide Consistent & Loving Care · presence

Thankful

November 27th, 2008 · 3 Comments

As we prepare for Thanksgiving this year I am once again astounded at the rush to Christmas that seems to invade the mall, grocery stores, and of course, my children.
Shopping for a turkey takes me past an aisle full of ribbon candy, ornaments, and “inexpensive” stuffed toys and board games. Sadly, it also brings out [...]

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A growing personality…

November 25th, 2008 · 2 Comments

One of my favorite parts of parenthood is watching a growing personality take form and shape.
Otter is growing daily into the person he will become. He is trying on attitudes and behaviors, and it is humorous to watch him keep and discard various attitudes. Ever the gooey love baby, he has started handing out open [...]

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Gratitude and Rest

November 23rd, 2008 · No Comments

My husband and I have been trying to figure out what to do for Thanksgiving this year. We’re feeling exhausted from work, house and garden projects, my mom moving to town. Having a big Thanksgiving event just seems like another project, one we wouldn’t necessarily feel thankful for.
When I was pregnant, Mike and I talked [...]

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Raised With Respect

November 18th, 2008 · 2 Comments

Last month, my son received an award in school.  Something I really like is that his school gives out character awards as opposed to academic awards.  The award my son received was for demonstrating respect.
Of course as his mom, I was very teary and sniffly and proud as could be during the awards assembly.   [...]

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Tags: Engage in Nighttime Parenting · Feed with Love and Respect · General Interest · Practice Positive Discipline · Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, & Parenting · Principles · Provide Consistent & Loving Care · Respond with Sensitivity

Natural process of weaning

November 17th, 2008 · 3 Comments

I really believe in child led weaning when it comes to extended breastfeeding however I personally would not like to nurse past 3-years of age. I know that many women do with great success and that’s wonderful and I fully support that. I just know my limitations and 3 years of age is about the [...]

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AP while on vacation

November 13th, 2008 · 1 Comment

We have just returned from a holiday which lasted 4 weeks. We have been to 4 countries, visited our extended families, went to the beach and stayed at 7 different places.
I was a bit anxious that it would be too much for our 20 month old daughter but she handled it very well.
We don’t need [...]

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Tags: General Interest · Provide Consistent & Loving Care · Strive for Balance

Mom to Mom: An interview with Jan Hunt

November 12th, 2008 · 4 Comments

An interview by Wendy Cook. You can read more from Wendy at Mother Rising.
Many of you know that I read Jan Hunt’s book The Natural Child: Parenting From the Heart when I was pregnant with Satch and it changed my life. The child in me felt validated and it helped me trust my gut [...]

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Tags: General Interest · Practice Positive Discipline · Provide Consistent & Loving Care

Shouldn’t We Invest More Thought In Our Parenting Than Planning Our Next Vacation?

November 10th, 2008 · 2 Comments

The decisions we make for our daughter today may affect her for a lifetime in more ways than one, which, in my opinion, makes them some of the most important and far-reaching we will ever be faced with. And yet, it seems that many people are willing to put more time into researching vacation destinations [...]

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Tags: General Interest · Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, & Parenting

Food and healthy eating

November 5th, 2008 · 4 Comments

The common question I hear from moms is how to get their child to eat and eat the right foods. The answer is complicated and every child is different but after having 2 children, I think I’ve seen a pattern of behavior when it comes to eating.
It makes me sad to think that some parents use food [...]

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