Comments on: My life with strollers http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/ Thu, 17 May 2012 16:35:36 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.5 By: Sarah http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-4776 Sarah Wed, 26 May 2010 17:36:08 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-4776 This was a great article. I just got my first stroller a few months ago, and i should have gotten one much earlier. We used a sling for over a year, but somewhere between 9 months and a year, while the sling still worked for HER, *i* wasn't getting any good exercise because her weight to one side just pulled too much and hurt my back. It worked great still for regular errands until about 15 months, when she decided she didn't like the sling any more (i think she felt cramped.) Soon after a year old i got a hiking pack, which worked great for moderate terrain,. We bought the jogging stroller specifically to meet my need to get good walking exercise without the extra weight. She *loves* it. As far as she's concerned, it's HER stroller. She loves the stroller and the pack, and i so do i. We choose whichever one bets fits the need for the situation. I truly don't feel that our use of stroller or pack in any way compromises our AP relationship. When she (and i) needed the sling, during those little-baby-close-to-mama months, we used it. When our needs changed, we moved on to something else. I think the caution surrounding stroller use is not to put young babies into them frequently, because they haven't gotten to the developmental point where they understand that they are still with mama. It's about choosing what is most beneficial for the developmental stage of the baby, not that slings are 'good' and strollers are 'bad'. :o) This was a great article. I just got my first stroller a few months ago, and i should have gotten one much earlier. We used a sling for over a year, but somewhere between 9 months and a year, while the sling still worked for HER, *i* wasn’t getting any good exercise because her weight to one side just pulled too much and hurt my back. It worked great still for regular errands until about 15 months, when she decided she didn’t like the sling any more (i think she felt cramped.) Soon after a year old i got a hiking pack, which worked great for moderate terrain,. We bought the jogging stroller specifically to meet my need to get good walking exercise without the extra weight. She *loves* it. As far as she’s concerned, it’s HER stroller. She loves the stroller and the pack, and i so do i. We choose whichever one bets fits the need for the situation. I truly don’t feel that our use of stroller or pack in any way compromises our AP relationship. When she (and i) needed the sling, during those little-baby-close-to-mama months, we used it. When our needs changed, we moved on to something else. I think the caution surrounding stroller use is not to put young babies into them frequently, because they haven’t gotten to the developmental point where they understand that they are still with mama. It’s about choosing what is most beneficial for the developmental stage of the baby, not that slings are ‘good’ and strollers are ‘bad’.
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]]> By: Theresa http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-282 Theresa Fri, 27 Jun 2008 07:49:54 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-282 I'm so glad to know that strollers are not the Big Bad Wolf that I thought some people were making them out to be! I just started using one with my 7 month old, and she loves it. Sometimes she just doesn't want to be strapped up in her sling. I was feeling guilty about it, but I figured if she likes it, then it can't be that bad. Thanks for the peace of mind :) I’m so glad to know that strollers are not the Big Bad Wolf that I thought some people were making them out to be! I just started using one with my 7 month old, and she loves it. Sometimes she just doesn’t want to be strapped up in her sling. I was feeling guilty about it, but I figured if she likes it, then it can’t be that bad.

Thanks for the peace of mind :)

]]> By: Audrey http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-281 Audrey Wed, 25 Jun 2008 18:53:02 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-281 Wow! I feel the same way! My daughter has always loved being worn in my Moby Wrap, but now that she is 22 months old, she is overly fascinated with strollers and not a single stroller can go by without her stopping it and wanting to visit with the child in the stroller. If there is an empty one around, she climbs right in and begs to go for a ride. I find myself shopping for an umbrella stroller and feeling like I am in very unfamiliar territory when I realize that my die-hard babywearing beliefs are being altered by my very own daughter! Wow! I feel the same way! My daughter has always loved being worn in my Moby Wrap, but now that she is 22 months old, she is overly fascinated with strollers and not a single stroller can go by without her stopping it and wanting to visit with the child in the stroller. If there is an empty one around, she climbs right in and begs to go for a ride. I find myself shopping for an umbrella stroller and feeling like I am in very unfamiliar territory when I realize that my die-hard babywearing beliefs are being altered by my very own daughter!

]]> By: drmariablois http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-280 drmariablois Thu, 19 Jun 2008 19:28:06 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-280 Oh, my goodness, I love my strollers, too! You know, to me attachment parenting just means responding to the needs of our children, it doesn't mean following a recipe. I think the big difference is that when my children don't want to be in the stroller or when they have had enough of the stroller, I always happily take them out and pop them in the sling that I always have tucked under the stroller. You are doing beautifully by your children. Strollers = freedom for us mamas with multiple children! Oh, my goodness, I love my strollers, too! You know, to me attachment parenting just means responding to the needs of our children, it doesn’t mean following a recipe. I think the big difference is that when my children don’t want to be in the stroller or when they have had enough of the stroller, I always happily take them out and pop them in the sling that I always have tucked under the stroller.

You are doing beautifully by your children. Strollers = freedom for us mamas with multiple children!

]]> By: Half Pint Pixie http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-279 Half Pint Pixie Thu, 19 Jun 2008 16:44:58 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-279 <i>I have to wonder some days if it would have been easier on our family had we spent the past 18 months following mainstream parenting advice</i> ah no Sherie, because then you'd still be trying to get him into the stroller and would never have tried the crazy hiking backpack :) I have to wonder some days if it would have been easier on our family had we spent the past 18 months following mainstream parenting advice
ah no Sherie, because then you’d still be trying to get him into the stroller and would never have tried the crazy hiking backpack :)

]]> By: Sherie http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-278 Sherie Thu, 19 Jun 2008 14:53:12 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-278 DS hasn't really been happy in stroller or being worn - ever. Doesn't leave many options eh? (lol) To our surprise, he has taken to and, dare I say it - loves, a big, awkward hiking backpack loaned to us by a friend. I can't get it fitted right for me, but DH can take him out for hours in it...he's even fallen asleep (gasp!) in it once. So, I'm thinking of trying an umbrella stroller now. I wish I could just accept the fact that in spite of our best efforts, DS does not fit the AP baby mold in any way. I have to wonder some days if it would have been easier on our family had we spent the past 18 months following mainstream parenting advice. :-( DS hasn’t really been happy in stroller or being worn – ever. Doesn’t leave many options eh? (lol) To our surprise, he has taken to and, dare I say it – loves, a big, awkward hiking backpack loaned to us by a friend. I can’t get it fitted right for me, but DH can take him out for hours in it…he’s even fallen asleep (gasp!) in it once. So, I’m thinking of trying an umbrella stroller now. I wish I could just accept the fact that in spite of our best efforts, DS does not fit the AP baby mold in any way. I have to wonder some days if it would have been easier on our family had we spent the past 18 months following mainstream parenting advice. :-(

]]> By: Half Pint Pixie http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/2008/06/18/my-life-with-strollers/comment-page-1/#comment-277 Half Pint Pixie Thu, 19 Jun 2008 11:26:34 +0000 http://attachmentparenting.org/blog/?p=77#comment-277 Me too, I'd be lost without my stroller. Littlepixie doesn't like to be carried all the time, she often likes ro watch the world go by and play with her toys in the stroller. Isn't that what AP is all about, listening to and responding to our children's needs! Plus, when she has a nap in the stroller, I can sit down for a lovely soy latte (decaf of course) and a book :) Me too, I’d be lost without my stroller. Littlepixie doesn’t like to be carried all the time, she often likes ro watch the world go by and play with her toys in the stroller. Isn’t that what AP is all about, listening to and responding to our children’s needs! Plus, when she has a nap in the stroller, I can sit down for a lovely soy latte (decaf of course) and a book :)

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