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Entries from May 2008

The Great Co-Sleeping Survey

May 29th, 2008 · No Comments

A new survey launched this week by two long-time advocates of co-sleeping lets co-sleeping families, so often marginalized or misrepresented as radical, irresponsible, or just plain odd, the ability to stand up and be counted.
The Fennells have been involved in promoting safe co-sleeping for many years. As parents of six and inventors of the Humanity [...]

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Tags: Engage in Nighttime Parenting

Nursing your toddler

May 28th, 2008 · No Comments

Nursing your toddler can be quite fun. Especially when they have a special word for it and can ask for it. And then there are the times, when they want you to breastfeed their favorite toy, in our case it’s the monkey, with whom we also co-sleep
However there are difficult times as well. Right [...]

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Tags: Feed with Love and Respect

Senstivity strained by boundary pushing

May 27th, 2008 · No Comments

Responding with sensitivity. Keeping everyone’s dignity in tact. Using positive reinforcement and active listening instead of punishment and negative reaction. All of these practices are something I firmly believe in. I believe children are incentivized to behave well when their needs are met, their work praised, and their failures patiently worked through, instead of harped [...]

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Tags: General Interest · Respond with Sensitivity

Volunteer Spotlight

May 26th, 2008 · No Comments

When I first became involved with API Headquarters it was as the Western Regional Director. I worked directly with Support Group Leaders throughout the western region and came to know some of them on a very personal level. I enjoyed the level of friendship and support that we extended to each other. I have now [...]

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Tags: Volunteer Spotlight

On breastfeeding while pregnant

May 25th, 2008 · 4 Comments

This month’s Motherwear Carnival of Breastfeeding is on the topic of pregnancy and breastfeeding.
When my husband and I decided to try to have another baby when our son was 10 months old, the realities of breastfeeding while pregnant were far from my mind. Like so many other aspects of parenting, I did not really know [...]

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Tags: Feed with Love and Respect · Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, & Parenting

Babywearer in Disguise

May 23rd, 2008 · No Comments

I’m the type of person that likes to be active about the things I am passionate about. In parenting spheres my passions include “extended” breastfeeding and carrying my child, usually in a sling. I remember when littlepixie was tiny, I used to get very excited whenever I saw anyone nursing an older baby in public, [...]

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Tags: Feed with Love and Respect · Provide Consistent & Loving Care · Respond with Sensitivity · Use Nurturing Touch

Favorite Baby Carrier?

May 22nd, 2008 · No Comments

Q: What is your favorite baby carrier and why?
A: Let me start by saying I have never met a baby carrier I did not like. I firmly believe that each baby carrier is suited to some parent/baby pair out there. Everyone has their own preferences and mostly it is not [...]

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Tags: General Interest

The Transformation of a High-Needs Child

May 21st, 2008 · No Comments

For the entire first year of my son Leif’s life, I could not go anywhere or do anything without him. He did not want to be left with anyone, not even his dad. He would cry and scream and be generally miserable for however long I was gone. We found this out [...]

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Tags: Respond with Sensitivity

Toddler Communication

May 19th, 2008 · No Comments

When my daughter Erika was a baby, several of my new mom-friends were practicing sign language with their children, but I was never interested. I really couldn’t figure out what the benefit would be, as it didn’t seem to me that I had any trouble understanding what she was trying to communicate. She pointed [...]

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Tags: Prepare for Pregnancy, Birth, & Parenting · Respond with Sensitivity

The Big “W”

May 16th, 2008 · 3 Comments

Originally posted March 30, 2007, when my daughter was two and my son was five.
I’ve been thinking a lot recently about weaning. Not as in, “I’ve been thinking a lot about the fact that my daughter should wean”, but more like, “I’ve been thinking a lot recently about the process of weaning, and what [...]

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Tags: Feed with Love and Respect